Sabado not so Gigante..

My Saturday has been quite slow, its a bit strange since its just been me for most of the weekend. I forgot how it was to be staying alone or being alone like I was before I moved here to NYC. It took me forever to get use to living with another person let alone share a bed. I can see why couples in their older years are so use to being with each other because It feels so odd to be without the other. I always had a hard time trying to understand what the big deal was, but then again a  lot of my ideas as young girl are vastly different as oppose to now.  I wouldn’t say I’ve been feeling lonely but I do feel I’m missing my best friend. You go through so  many hardships with a person and at the end of the day you know that you have each others back no  matter how hard things can be. Sometimes I can’t really understand how some women bitch and complain about their husbands for boyfriends not buying them expensive gifts or taking them out to fancy restaurants or not being romantic. I blame a lot of it on these sappy whimsical  romance novels, movies and  most of all women’s magazines. There so full of crap that’s why I use them to pick up my dog’s caca . What really pisses me off is when women complain about the type of ring they deserve when they become engaged.  I’ve read that a man has to save up at least 2 pay checks in order to buy the most pricey ring. I mean what the hell??? I’m not saying that a man should never buy something nice for his lady but there really shouldn’t be any rules or obligation  what so ever.   Its funny I bring this up because when I was first dating Dave I had flown over and stayed in NY for quite awhile it was our first anniversary, we both didn’t have much money to buy each other nice gifts so I tried very hard to at least get him a card of some sort, he also wanted to buy me something. We had been walking around Brooklyn for awhile and we were sitting at a park bench, he told me to wait here for a few minutes and that he would be right back. A few minutes later I see him returning with a large bag, and a huge smile he then asked me to close my eyes because it was a surprise for our anniversary. I held out my hands and he placed the gift in my hands, when I opened my eyes I saw that he had bought a large Hawaiian pineapple from the store lol   It was the cutest thing ever I couldn’t stop laughing lol (pineapples are my fave. fruit  along with strawberries)   Now I know some women would of been mad as hell, maybe even insulted but I couldn’t be happier because when we went home we cracked open that same pineapple and it was the sweetest literally pineapple we ever ate together.  I guess what I’m saying is that sometimes the most simplest of act are always the sincerest ways of showing love to one another.

Happy VD to everyone!!

I just wanted to wish everyone a Happy Valentine’s Day !!!!   hopefully I’ll have a new blog by tonight thats if I feel better .. cross you fingers party people.

 

From L.A to N.Y

 

Los Angeles what a wonderful young city , Its the best place to be when you want sunny warm weather 365 days a year. The ocean is blue and on a good day at the beach you can actually see dolphins swimming. I love my city and home town which is just East of Los Angeles. Everything is slow paced, people are outside on sundays watering their front lawns, kids are riding there bikes on the streets, everyone is playing at the park. Of course the traffic is bad after all everyone and their na na has a car. There at least has to be 3 to 4 cars per family. Hell everyone in my family has a car, i think I was the only one who didn’t. There are times when I do miss home, being able to jump in a car and just drive, the cool thing is if you can’t drive there was always the good old MTA buses. I’ve ridden on so many buses I practically know how to get around the city without a car. The new train system isn’t so bad either, it’s very modern and up to date, always on time and rarely ever crowded. At least I think it still is, I haven’t lived in Los Angeles for about 5 years now. I lived in L.A for about 22 years. My family and friends live in Los Angeles I decided to make a huge change and leave from one big city to a bigger city…….. New York City! 

 

This city is huge!!! Hell in this one picture i took on 14th street Union Square look at how many friggin people are outside and this on a weekday! Its been such a hard transition for me to get use to, I hear many New yorkers who move to L.A have a hard time adjusting due to the fact that its really laid back and slow. I just feel bad for Los Angelinos who move to NY, pace is and stress here is immense. I’m surprised I haven’t had a heart attack yet or a stroke. I’ve had to put my laid back, easy carefree attitude on the back burner and bring out my inner New Yorker. Luckily I’ve had special people to help me out on that little department, although New York has really great places plus the seasons are always awesome to witness. I was so surprised when I moved to New York to actually see snow or the start of fall when the trees changed colored, or when spring came around. You can see the birds chirping and flowers growing its truly a beautiful sight. I must admit though I hate the summer, thats one season i can do with out all together. There is no need to have a swampy sweaty ass where ever i go, or having my balls stick to the left side of my leg ( well if I had balls atleast).. but you get my point. I’ll always love my home Los Angeles but I think I’m start to fall for my new city and new home.